What would happen if we faced our fears? What would happen if we befriended our fears?
Pema chodron tells a story in her book “When things fall apart ” about a young student warrior facing fear and asking fear how she could defeat it?
The young warrior roused herself and went toward fear, and asked, “May I have permission to go into battle with you?” Fear said, “Thank you for showing me so much respect that you ask permission.” Then the young warrior said, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “My weapons are that I talk fast, and I get very close to your face. Then you get completely unnerved, and you do whatever I say. If you don’t do what I tell you, I have no power. You can listen to me, and you can have respect for me. You can even be convinced by me. But if you don’t do what I say, I have no power.” In that way, the student warrior learned how to defeat fear.
Mostly fears tend to scare people away. Next time you notice a thought that invokes fear, smile and greet it as a friend. Acknowledging fears and not turning away is a big step towards regaining personal power.
Peace,
Shobhna
The only fear I have is snakes and I will NEVER befriend one! I once came within a few feet of one, but it was my feet that turned and ran away, my face was in too much shock to respond!! ;D
Thanks for sharing your snake story. Self preservation is healthy…like zebras running from tigers…:))
Good message.
Thank you 🙂
I read Things Fall About for a college class and was greatly impressed by it. Think it’s time I read it again. Thanks for the reminder. 🙂
You are welcome. I read parts of the book every now and then too.
A VERY inspirational post! I am looking forward to getting to know your work. Thank you for being so kind and supportive as well.
Thank you..that’s sweet of you.
I enjoy reading your posts. Very thought-provoking!
Thank you for being so kind. 🙂
Awesome message.. I’ve been kicking fears butt for awhile now.. thank you
Thanks….and lovely to hear about your stance with fear! It’s an ongoing unfolding it seems. Take care and thanks for stopping by.